The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I have come along way. Yesterday I came home and did my wash that is a great thing in itself. I have problems doing my wash. I have waited months to do it. I have done it every week since I wash my clothes on Friday of Thanksgiving. Then I took a shower which I have had problems doing that as well. So that is two good things I have done. Then my husband went out around 8 and didn't come home until 11 and I didn't call him one time. That was the biggest thing. I usually cut, or throw glass, look over the whole neighborhood for him and i didn't do any of them.
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Hey everyone watch me grow. I go thru good & bad times. each day i am getting stronger.
Keep sharing those personal victories with us. I don't know about you but it really helps me when I do. I've done some things and couldn't wait to come online and share them. For me it's healthy to express joy as well as some of the less pleasant emotions we have to share.
{{{nycbt}}}
Bob
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You are a perfect child of God and God and I love you just the way you are! (added by me...in that special alanon way)
NYC>>>>>>>>I didn't call him one time. That was the biggest thing
ROSIE>>>>>>>>>>>GOOD 4 U......YAAAAY!!! that was a "biggie" i used to do the same thing.....go NUTS when X was overdue commin home........thank god i am 1--not with an active A.....2-- not in that coda crap anymore......proof of that is my beloved brother whom i am REALLY close to....i just go my "merry way" not expecting ANYthing from him....just accepting him AS IS....sweet but UNdependable.............peace/ rosie