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Well that was great I thought about that today because I was talking with a person f2f and she was as confused as I was when someone said that to me.
The first time I heard it I thought she meant " Sobriety "
She said no dear thats HIS miracle
Yours is finding yourself , the real you,the person u want to be.
So after a few yrs in Al-Anon my first thought was s till about "him" jeeeeze that made me mad and I had been working so hard on myself I thought. So one more time I had to start over and focus on my needs and find my own miracle. Thank God I stayed here long enough to be almost the person i want to be when I grow up. hehe
I had been asked to speak at a convention a few yrs ago and the theme was Miracles so at coffee I asked some of my friends what thier thoughts were. So many diff answers but my fav was a friend who sad -- thats easy she replied == It's when something works out exactly the way I wanted it too and I had nothing to do with it. gotta love it.
I have been so consumed with others in my life that I am losing the focus on me. I needed to read this post right now for a little reality check before I go back to visit my parents. I am going to re-read it again tomorrow and put some of the sayings in my purse for the trip. cdb:)
