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well my a met up with an addictions counsellor and will see him again in a week. they set up some goals and plans for what to do with pressure or the urge creeps up to drink or use again. im not getting my hopes up but i will see what happens. i will stand by my man down the road to recovery but will have to leave if he gives up. i know he could relapse and i will still be here but if he says he doesnt need help like he used to then thats my cue to leave. so i will hope and pray for the rest and take care of myself as well.

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~*Service Worker*~

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Sounds like you too have set your own boundries and are handling this very well.


Keep it up notso, and keep us posted !


{{notsones}}



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HOpe your A keeps ti up notsonew, thats kinda the situation I am in just now, having hope, but not letting my hopes convince me he will do it this time - only time will tell.


 


I hope it all works out for you guys.


 



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((((((((((((((NSN)))))))))))))),


I agree with Bob, sounds like you have some good boundaries set up, and a plan if the boundaries are crossed.


Keep Coming Back!


Much Love,



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