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Yesterday I drove home from my parents excited to see Rick. When I got home from work I patiently wanted for him to come home. Didn't call all day. We went to vote. I had no idea who to really vote for but voted. Then around 7:00 he told me that he had to starighten out the mes he made on Sunday and that he would be back around 8:00 so he took the car and took off. The people he was meeting were not legal but I made the choose to let him go. 8:00 came an went and then I started my old behavoir with calling him and crying because I knew I made the wrong decision. 9:00 came an went I was so upset at this point that I was crying hard. I had called his phone a million times and he didn't answer which made me more mad. I ended up calling his son to ask what time is he going to be home from work and he said around 10:00 - 10:30 he had call my husband and he told him he was at someone house but when he got home he later confess to not being there. He got home around 10 somthing. I was so angry that I told him if he is going to go any where it is going to be by foot. So I took my key back from the car
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Hey everyone watch me grow. I go thru good & bad times. each day i am getting stronger.
yep your car??? your key!!!! if he wants to go somewhere, he can walk.......i hope you can STAND on your boundaries, cuz if you dont'???? they won't be worth anything to him and things just get worse cuz there is NO fear NO hesitation to mess up....i know!!!!! peace/ rosie
