The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Hey Kathy, I shared about my A and you asked me how I'm doing. I'm doing ok. I really am. Everyday is a tough chore for me. It really is. But to live with an alcoholic and for him to really want to try is also a blessing. Thank you so much for being concerned. We all have problems and some days we think our problems are all that matters. Sometimes I wish I could save the world but I know I can't. Thanks again Kathy for being concerned.
I'm glad to hear it. I know for me there was a time whenever anyone would ask me.......How are you? I'd go right into every little thing going on with my A. I never even realized I did this pre program. But I did it, and often. It took me a long time to work on that and get to the point that when someone asked me how *I* was doing, really tell them about me and not my A. I was so focused on him that if he had a good day, I'd consider that a good day for me too. When he had a bad day, well then I'd have a horrible day. I based my every feeling and emotion on him, and never focused on myself.
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Kathy S --
~*I trust my Higher Power that I am exactly where I am supposed to be in my life today.*~
