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I went the whole work day with out doing any of the calling. He called me. I still have not done any of the calling. Even though I am going to be seeing him I am going to see if he does the calling when he goes out. Which I am hoping he doesn't but if he does I hope he does the calling. I am working on not calling him.
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Hey everyone watch me grow. I go thru good & bad times. each day i am getting stronger.
Baby steps, and "progress, not perfection". Way to go for working your program, as best as you can right now.... Lots of people, newly separated from their A's, go by a "no contact for 90 days" rule of thumb, which allows BOTH to work on their own respective recoveries....\
What you are doing, is facing hard stuff right now...... You're doing well at the first step in that process, of not initiating the calls..... pretty soon, you'll find yourself obsessing less and less about him, or calling him, etc., and be able to get on with your life - with or without him!
Take care
Tom
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"What you think of me is none of my business"
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