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nycbt


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Well I went since 8:10 this morning with out talking to him. He just called me he missed talking to me.I feel alitte better that I wasn't the first one to call. He said he was surpised I didn't call him.

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Jeannie


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Hi,


They almost always call when we don't call them. Alcoholics tend to hate change. They live for the game. When we don't play along how can they play?


Keep going hour by hour day by day.


                           Love Jeannie



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Dolphin123


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NYCBT,


Last week when I thought my marriage was over someone said that I couldn't get rid of my "A" so easy. They are like boomarangs. This is so true. My "A" knows that only  a few people out there would put up with his crap. And he knows that I love him. He knows that I want him sober, but I love him regardless of his sobriety. I really and truly believe now that the only way my marriage will end is I walk away.


I bet he was surprised that you didn't call. I am sure he can see that you are getting healthy.


Much Love,



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nycbt


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I am hoping that he notices. But if he doesn't that is ok too because people that have I know have seen my progress an that is good for me. I just don't need him to show or tell me how far I have come.

-- Edited by nycbt at 14:19, 2005-11-08

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Good work there NYCBT


 


NYCBT - getting stronger every day!



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oh yeah,   they are *game players*  alright...my younger A  brother even  *games* the program....makes me sad, but i just detach!!!!     ttyl/ rosie

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Hi NYCBT,


You are making progress and are very strong~keep up the great work at taking care of yourself.


Hugs, Diane



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