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i had a really nice day with my hubby he has been doing great! i am go proud of him.
i just want him home i miss him. he wants us to move out of our appartment. he said it doesn't feel like home any more, but i can't move my daughter is doing so good in school . she is on kickline ,cheerleading & she loves it. it wouldn't be fair to her. i am so torn .now today is sunday its 12:22 i feel loneley and he has not called yet god forbid i call his mom would flip out. even if i call his cell phoneshe is crazy. what are we 16? yesterday we were making out in a car like we were teenagers its was fun . then he said lets get a room i wasn't thinking and i said ok. it has been a month since we were together that way. i miss him and i don't want it to be this way.
they have a short stay very easy for spouses to cheat on each other. 3 hrs 40 bucks he of course paid and asked if i needed money he put money in the checking account so i paid the bills last night but he refuses to give my brother rent because he is not there noe he pays his moms rent i need to make him cut the crap & come home he wants my brpther to apologize which is not going to happen . i think my husband should apologize or they both should to each other .any suggestions.
today i am going to go to church with my daughter and then we are going to get some cream of turkey soup mmm it's sunday . my daughter wanted to rent my herbie the love bug i was so tired i ask the guy if he had herpie the love bug and sisters of the yaya club.my daughter was hysterical the man was laughing too i myself was embarassed but laughed at my self also
hope all is well with you thanks for all your replies i couldn't make it through with out you. you guys are the best you are all in my book
i need to make him cut the crap & come home he wants my brpther to apologize which is not going to happen . i think my husband should apologize or they both should to each other .any suggestions.
******You can apply the steps to this situation the same as you do toward your husbands drinking. You can't *make* him cut the crap and come home. He has to make that choice. He wants your brother to apologize, you feel they both should apologize... regardless you can't control this situation or it's outcome. Try to continue to do the next right thing for you and turn the rest over to your HP. Sounds like you have a nice Sunday planned with your daughter. Enjoy it!
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Kathy S --
~*I trust my Higher Power that I am exactly where I am supposed to be in my life today.*~
chrissy, all i can do is control ME, and that is a full time job...i can only work on me....i cannot make my sig others *cut the crap* they have to choose that themselves...meantime??? i am takin care of me rosie
Your husbands Mother sounds like she belongs to the same club as my husbands mother.
Is there any way to get another apartment in the same area, so your daughter could continue with what she does? Sometimes a change of address can be a new beginning.
You can't make either of them apologize, they will do what they want.
, but i can't move my daughter is doing so good in school . she is on kickline ,cheerleading & she loves it. it wouldn't be fair to her. i am so torn .now today is sunday its 12:22 i feel loneley and he has not called yet god forbid i call his mom would flip out. even if i call his cell phone
she is crazy. what are we 16? yesterday we were making out in a car like we were teenagers its was fun 
. then he said lets get a room i wasn't thinking and i said ok. it has been a month since we were together that way. i miss him and i don't want it to be this way. 
. i think my husband should apologize or they both should to each other .any suggestions.
. my daughter wanted to rent my herbie the love bug i was so tired i ask the guy if he had herpie the love bug and sisters of the yaya club.my daughter was hysterical the man was laughing too i myself was embarassed but laughed at my self also
in my book
rosie