The material presented
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my partner asked in a very caring manner would you like to veiw your post`s . i thought he was being sweet and lovely. NO he just wanted me to read his post on the A.A. site . he is such a attention seeker. his post was very well written!!!, although a bit random. he also recived a phone call from a chap in A.A. which pleased him no end . he confessed to sulking because no-one had rung him . I am only beginning to see the real man now. But the stuff that upset`s him is weired. but now i am more able to deal with it. i used to want to make things better for him and sort his stuff out. but now i let him get on with it[which is hard to do ,as i may be a controll freak, but none of us are perfect] get on with getting on with my ventures. i. know i need to go to a Al.Anon meeting,but still searching for one . I really love my partner with all his little foybles bless him
It is hard not to control a person. My husband after almost two months has started back in AA. It is hard not to control him. However I know there is nothing I can do. I can't babysit or I should say I don't want to babysit. But aren't all acholic attetnion seekers.
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Hey everyone watch me grow. I go thru good & bad times. each day i am getting stronger.