The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Letting go: the thing is you can't make a person be what they don't want to be you can't make them do what they don't want to do, you can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink.
Acceptence: accepting a person as they are, accepting their belifes, values, likes and dislikes. Live and let live. accepteting a person at face value why dig in to someone else life history? thats exactly what it is history ! its not the here and now.