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Just thought I'd bring you up to date on the wierd situation. She called me again this morning at work. This was 6am in the morning folks. I made it clear to her that this was totallly unacceptable behavior as was her past behavior. I also made it clear that if she continued to talk to the employees about my husband and I, I would tell my manager what was going on.
I called my husb tonight and told him what was going on. He was not pleased by the news, but glad that I did tell him. How he handles her, he is not sure. He will see her in group tomorrow. He wants to talk it over with his sponsor and get his feedback. Clearly we both think that this woman needs help. But it's not up to us. I reminded him that he has to be focused on his recovery, as I do mine. While it might be the compassionate thing to try and help her, we don't think that it's wise.
I did make it clear to him that if she continues to call work, or the house, that I would take action. I refuse to let this woman affect my life any more than it already has. I am leaning towards talking to someone in AA, because it just bothers me that she can be a Sponsor and act like this. But for now, we'll see how the next week goes.
Thanks to all for the input. Love and support to all.
Live strong, Karilynn
P.S. On a much lighter note, it being Monday Night Football: GO EAGLES!
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Good for you Karilynn. People like this loose thier power over us when faced head on. If you and your guy stay on the same page with open communication you are unshakeable.
I still think it would e a good idea to join your husband at the meeting tonight if he thinks that it would be ok. As it would reduce the he said she said thing.
