The quote below :  Infidelity is a need for power, not a lack of love or romance.   I am confused. (?)       Seeking infidelity when feeling powerless in a committed relationship?    Men needing a sense of power?    Me thinks, too much, perhaps.

Yes, okay, I can explain...  I didn't cheat, I've never experienced infidelity with a lover.  Last month I step-father got caught cheatting by his mistress' husband.  So he got caught.   Turns out he's been having affairs for 15 years. 

In the chat room the other day, I was trying to understand & we were all talking about keeping your love alive & such.  A man kindly said those words to me, as to understand why the "A" in my life hurt my mother so. 

It was enlightening to me, so I just posted it.  I guess anything out of context makes little sense...  sorry about the confusion & thanks for asking.