The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I have a mother who is an alcoholic. I used to live with her but I got token away. I have so many mixed emotions that it is truely scarey. If anyone noes how to cope please send me a not. Thanks.
Are you in a safe place now? Sounds like you have come to the right place, when I first posted on this board, I was desperate. It is hard to understand why someone you know loves you and you love them can hurt you so badly. Find a group meeting in your area for Alanon, there is a link at the top of this web page. Read lots about the disease. Post often. Hugs Mary
The only way I know how to deal with this is through working my program, Alanon. I have support from others who have been in my shoes and can just listen, or tell me what they did for themselves and often this inspires me. Find alanon or alateen. Go to meetings. Can you go to meetings face to face, if not can you come to meetings online?
I hope you find the help you need in the loving arms of alanon
Take care.
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"Today's problems can not be solved if we still think the way we did when we created them" -Albert Einstein