Hi this week has deen pretty good. My brother came to stay with me, his wife had to work and she lives with her mother and father. They went to Las Vagas and I said I would watch my nephw. So they stayed with my husdband and I.When they got here my bother looked a little high, but it was my grandma's birthday and I didnot want to say anything to him,and what if I was wrong. I know since his has been out of rehab he has relaps twice. My brother lives with my mother and stepfather, the thing is it is not the most healthy place for him to be. Our mother hates his wife and all she does is yell at him about it. He asked if he can live with use but I already have my moms mom (my grandma living with me.) . So I feel really bad because he has to stay some were unhealthy. Eventhow it wasn't that bad with him here I just don't have the room him and his son stay in my daughters bedroom. Since he has deen here he has gone to a meeting every night but Monday. I just feel really bad because he can't live with his wife and son untill all his legal stuff is over. Not till after Christmas some time. So they split the car Two weeks each and thier son every other week. Our mother won't let his wife stay their because she thinks my sister-in-law still uses . I'm not to sure she does. My brother dosen't like to take his son to my mothers house because she say's really mean thing about her. I really think our mother needs to go for some help for herself she dose nothing but nag and tell my brother and myself what to do and is a complet jerk. Sorry to have to say that but she is. She is allways telling myself what I have to do for my addit brother and now I wont do as she says so now I get in arguments with her all the time. She need to bee suportive in stead of a crabby know it all mother .


Thank for listening and if you have any ideas of how I should handle the situation please help.

Thanks Allie