The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I have been getting a lot of backlash from my AH about my program and my coming to MIP. Don't know if he has read my posts but he does know my nick so I am going to change it. My new nick will be myturn. Thank you all for all of the support you have and continue to give me.
I hope that keeps your anonymity. You get to wrestle yourself out from the control by the disease and work your own program. You get to judge and critique your own walk by the results and only those given your permission are allowed to give you feedback on your growth and relapses...such as a sponsor. He is your alcoholic; not your sponsor.
He can get his own program and sponsor; work with it all and then ask if you would like to discuss both.
Wake up man wake up!!
It could happen...LOL
Keep coming back who ever you decide to be. Some day you'll be more than you expected. (((((hugs)))))
((((((Lynn)))))) Sometimes we have to be really creative in protecting ourselves once we realize our A is being nosy. He is not you and you are not him. He has crossed your boundaries so good for you for knowing that and taking a step to protect yourself. There may be other areas, too, in which you need to protect yourself. Looking forward to your future posts.
