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i spent hours and hours and hours preparing documents regarding the landlord stuff. I just heard from the attoney I sent it to they wn't be able to help me. Now I have to go back to another attorney and ask him.
I am so sick of dealing with the a's messes. I am so sick of getting absolutely no help from anyone.
I am so so sick of his being able to get away with it and leave all his debt to me.
I am so totally tired of trying to get my self out of this mess.
((((((maresie))))) I'm sorry you're in this situation. Life isn't always fair, that's for sure. Please take care of yourself while you go through this.
I don't know your whole situation, but when I'm feeling defeated and overwhelmed I have to look at what I'm trying to get done and ask myself if It all has to be done in the time frame I'm trying to do it in. Sometimes it's more that I'm wanting to have all the things taken care of and for whatever reason HP is saying not quite yet.
I remember crying to my sponsor saying I'm doing the leg work, I'm trying, no one can say I haven't been trying....she just told me to let it go for the moment, for that evening, run a bath, get my rest and just ask HP for guidance. For me my answer came in the morning with the thought of someone who could help me, for whatever reason I hadn't thought of them -- and they did help and things started to come together.
I'll be praying for you. I feel your frustration, Who ever it is that ends up helping you -- they'll be the right person for it.
I can see by your posting you are overwhelmed right now. Ask HP for some strength and remember one day at a time. Just have a day that you do nothing, no fixing just read a book, take a walk whatever you need to get a little serenity again. You are on overload with your work as well so you have to listen to how tired your body is and rest. When you feel a little better go back to some of your old MIP posts and see how far you really have come. The light is at the end of the tunnel, just a little fog before you get to it. Luv Leo xxx
Start with the most important thing and work your way down. Also, remember this when those fond memories of the good times start creeping back in and don't put yourself in the position of ending up with someone elses debt/mistakes on your hands again. This too will pass and it wont seem as bad when it's over.
