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Thank you all for your prayers about jobs. I am still waiting to hear on one particular job that would help me out a great deal. If had that job I could make it out of the debt that's been generated by having to move.
Right now I am going to have to go back to working minimum wage. I have not had good experiences with that. Nevertheless one of the things I am doing is trying to get off the edge and I am "willing".
I feel discouraged needless to say. I would appreciate it if someone who interviewed me would give me the courtesy of letting me know the status but they don't. Its very hard not to get into hopelessness and despair.
hello, I am happy to hear how you are doing. When I was bummed out in the job market (not so much as a call back) I went to community college. It helped me alot. I am moving over to healthcare now, and I have alot more options then before. Also, I enlisted in the state employment agencies. They didn't help too much, but any is good.
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I'm like a pinch of tea...put me in hot water and see how strong I can be.
Hi Maresie, I am always glad to hear your updates. I will continue to pray for you. I just know God will bless you because you are doing the right thing.
Mary you have gotten you thru so much. That took major guts. You have now learned to take care of you.
I see you as one very special, loyal person. You know lady, you sell YOU. Anyone would be fortunate to have you as an employee.
I have hired and fired so beleive me, I know most people do not want to work. If you need a reference let me know. I can word it in a way that is not lieing but conveys your attributes.
Will keep you in my prayers. Besides your skills, sell you are dependable, you are honest. Team player, you enjoy having a career, that at this point in your life, it is your focus.
Mary I am so proud of you. Don't give up. Do your best to enjoy where you are now.
I know it can be done as I am sooo happy where I am mary. one room, portable toilet, showers in the barn, until I get the rest of my bunkhouse done. I am living on nothing until March of next year. i have great faith. made it this far.
I know you can. You will get your dogs back. Do your best to stop the bad thoughts and put in good ones.
please. You are living where you are safe, your things are safe. You will only have your own bills to be responsible for, you are where you will be built up, you can take care of you. you can tell yourself how great you are, focus on the wonderful things you love, think about you have a future all yours, You will garden in your new home someday, bring home a puppy and if a stray cat comes along, you will take it in.
mary right now, you have your own little space. You have people here who care about you. I do very much.
If you can, find a womans support group. Mental health usually has one. I sure got a lot from mine years ago.
Throw the heaviness away. Feel the light ness. it is there. simplicity for now. you are healing.
((Maresie)) I'm sorry I have not been able to keep up with the posts, I'm glad to see you are doing ok. Best wishes on getting the job you want and fits your needs. I'll add it to my prayers.
