The material presented
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information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
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I am in the process of moving still. I do not really know what the A is doing whether he will maI
ke it through his own transition so I am trying to be able to take as much as I can. I cannot rely on the A for much he is so scattered. My heart is full of grief. At the same time I know I hit a wall where I could not try anymore to change him.
I may or may not help him to pack up. Right now I have other serious issues going with work. I am still looking for another job. That is a full time job in itself. I had one good interview this past week Please say prayers I get that - that would be perfect. That would so so help in this transition. My nerves are shot some days. Other days I feel deep grief that the A never tried and got stuck. I also feel enormous apprehension.
That's great (((maresie))) that you made it this far!! I don't know if the hard part is over, but you've accomplished sooo much. Keep in there and post as much as you need. I hope everything works out the best it can for you. Jamie
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I'm like a pinch of tea...put me in hot water and see how strong I can be.
((maresie))))My prayers are with you. Sorry you are hurting, but as RJ said, look at how much you have accomplished. Best of luck with the job search. Something good is bound to happen. Glad you are here. Love in Recovery, Becky1
Transtions are hard. You are way ahead of me. Kinda the lead out there testing the waters so the rest of us will know we can do it too. It will probably take all your energy just to take care of yourself. I don't know that you have to do anything for your A.
I'm so proud of you I know for so long you have been working on this plan B and now finally it is coming into action. I know it is painful but soon you will be through the other side and feeling releived. You are an inspiration to me the way you plugged along until the time was right and made your move. I really am proud that you set your goal and now are achieving it!
