Al-Anon Family Group

The material presented here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method to exchange information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal level.

Members Login
Username 
 
Password 
    Remember Me  
Post Info TOPIC: 51 hours of hell


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 3223
Date:
51 hours of hell


((((Family))))

On the 22nd my Grandson went missing from a behavioral health center. He was there to deal with some anger and behavioral issues. He wasn't there but 12 hrs. before he fled. He was in a strange town and had no friends there. He just turned 13 in Dec. and is very small for his age, only 89 lbs. You can imagine our distress as it is very cold and he ran w/o a coat.

I always said when a child is on the news as missing that I just can't even imagine the raw angst a family goes through. Now I know. It's hell. It's hard to sleep, hard to eat, hard to do the necessery things that need to be done to find them. There is lots of registering with different foundations, dealing with police, detectives etc.

Anyway, we can all collapse now. My Grandson was found today in another state. Thank HP for the NCIC (National Crime Information Center) system.

I've been in chat and on the board a few times and didn't mention my Grandson because it was my escape from the drama and trauma, so forgive me for that. I knew if I said anything that y'all would be asking everytime I went in to chat. I love ya, but I learned my lesson when my husband was sick. It's so hard to live it, let alone repeating it over and over.

I really, really want to thank jrtjosey, my rock. She was online helping immediately.. writing to the Mayor and officials and Lord knows who else. I didn't ask who, I was just grateful that she was helping, all the while keeping continuous contact with me and making sure I was holding up..
Going through this crisis alone w/o my husband here to tell me it was all going to be OK was really hard.
The prayers she asked for on here a couple days ago were for my family. Thank you my dear friend. And thank you all for those prayers.

Thanks to ((((((Kerry)))) too for being there for me.  Love ya girl.

I gotta say too, I raised one strong daughter. Together, we rock!! We hit some brick walls but kept on knocking them down.

Our boy is found, he's in jail 90 miles away, but that's better then the fears that go through your head when they are alone in the cold and dark..


Christy




-- Edited by Christy at 00:07, 2007-02-25

__________________

If we think that miracles are normal, we will expect them.  And expecting a miracle is the surest way to get one.



Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 211
Date:


((((((((((((Christy)))))))))))))))

   So sorry you had to go through this.  You are an amazing lady.

                                    hugs,
                                    danz

trouble and grace to bear it come in the same package

__________________


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 358
Date:

I am so sorry you were going through this.  Thank goodness he has been found.  You and your family are in my prayers.  You have always replied to my posts, with honesty and wisdom, even through this ordeal!  You are quite a lady.

Take Care,
Leetle




-- Edited by Leetle at 19:15, 2007-02-24

__________________

learning to live for the now...



~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 2287
Date:

Better in jail than out on the street - thank god he was found. Maybe he can find a way to accept help he needs - it looks like you all are trying to give it to him.  So glad it has turned out this way.

__________________


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 452
Date:

((((((((((((Christy & Family)))))))))))))))

I am so sorry ya had to go through this.  Thank goodness he has been found.  Now ya can get some rest.
As for your daughter being a rock.....she has a strong Mama!!!
Will continue to keep the young one in my thoughts and prayers along with you and yours.
love ya,
lilms

__________________
Two things:
1. Recovery is a process, not an event.....and....
2. You only get to go around once. Leave em laughing and make it worth your while


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 2055
Date:

((((((((((((((Christy))))))))))))))))))))))),

All I can do is hug ya, and if ya don't want that, that's ok too

love ya,
Maria

__________________
If I am not for me, who will be?  If I am only for myself, then who am I?  If not now, when?


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 153
Date:

(((((((((((((((Christy)))))))))))))))

I have been praying for him since you told me. I'm so glad he was found safe and sound. I hope now you can get some good sleep and take care of you!!!!

Love ya
shad

__________________
Wishing you all serenity,
Love
Shadow2


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 762
Date:

thanking your HP that your grandchild of 13 is in jail.

If that isn't a lesson for me in perspective I dont' know what is.

Glad that the power of your families love, the power of your prayers and the power of prayers sent your way helped !

Bob

__________________

You are a perfect child of God and God and I love you just the way you are!  (added by me...in that special alanon way)



~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 818
Date:

no thanks needed here, just doing exactly what you would have done for anyone of us here.

Josey

__________________
Julianne - It's best to move on. You cannot look back in anger in life. It's too short


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 3656
Date:

((((((((((((((Christy)))))))))))))),

Thank goodness he's okay, I can understand not wanting to repeat the stories over an over again, eventhough we appreciate all the love and prayers we get.  Now take a deep breath, and  . I'm glad you're daughter was there for you.

Much love and blessings to you and your family. I'll keep your family in my prayers tonight.

Live strong,
Karilynn, Hubby & Pipers Kitty


__________________
It's your life. Take no prisoners. You will have it your way.


Veteran Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 62
Date:

((((((((Christy)))))))))


Sorry to hear about your grandson. Glad he was found and is safe....i couldnt imagine going thru that. Im glad you are holding up ok.   This is a wonderful place with wonderful people.


                       MrBlue42

__________________


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 2188
Date:

Oh CHristy, I just saw this post.  So thankful your grandson is safe.  Sorry for what you went through.  You can bet you are at the top of my list right now for prayers, positive thoughts, and energy.

Love ya, Diva

__________________
"Speak your truth quietly and clearly..." Desiderata


Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 276
Date:

((((((((((((Christy))))))))))))) love ya too,

so glad this nightmare is over for you,now you can breathe 



kerry

__________________
Life can only be understood backwards, But it must be lived forwards


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 791
Date:

Thank God or what every our understanding of a HP is, I only went through two hours and that is long enough, I hope never to have to experience it again, you are in my thoughts.



__________________
Maire rua


~*Service Worker*~

Status: Offline
Posts: 1491
Date:

((Christy))

Hate so much that you & your family went thru this horrible time and will keep you & your family in my thoughts & prayers asking  

"that all those who come in contact with your Grandson have the healthy compassion that he needs, that he will be able to accept their assistance, that your HP will give you & your daughter the inner strength and serenity needed cope with the situation and most of all to always have a Ray of Hope for better days soon to come"

Love & Hugs,
Rita

__________________

No matter what me and my God are going to be ok, even better than OK - teamwork.gif



Senior Member

Status: Offline
Posts: 179
Date:

((((christy))))))


I am soooo happy they found him. And as you said he may be in jail, but he is safe. He will still be in my prayers.


Andi

__________________
Andi
Page 1 of 1  sorted by
 
Quick Reply

Please log in to post quick replies.