The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I am moved to indicate now, that the admin area of this board reflects that the person who wrote the post above has changed their nickname no less than 3 times, varified by their isp information. I do not know, nor care of the reasoning behind this. What I do care about is that it is starting to appear that the person is asking board moderators to keep their identity secret from other board members.
In Al-Anon we are no longer any ones secret keepers. Our days of having a pink elephant in the living room and not talking about it to any one is over.
It appears we have a pink elephant in the living room of this board and should they continue to bother the moderators with their expectations that we owe them a committment to keep a secret, which is starting to appear to be a method to manipulate members of this board, not only will I disclose their identity, their ISP will be banned from the board.
Stop asking us to be your secret keepers. We are not obligated to do so.
John
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" And what did we gain? A new life, with purpose, meaning and constant progress, and all the contentment and fulfillment that comes from such growth."
thank you John , everyone knows how I feel about people who come in under assumed nicknames, I may not always be popular about what I have to say but am willig to risk it by using the same nick name I have used for yrs . I have spent along time giving myself permission to be Me ,that includes the good , bad and the ugly .
Here Here abbyal.........trust is HUGE amongst us alanoners, and thank you John for noticing this. We dont need anymore crap in our lives, as we who come here have already probably had our fill! (as I type away the theme song from the Good , the Bad, and the Ugly is playing in my head)....thanks abby,,,,,,,,lol
