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bev


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he asked again tonite if i would buy him a circuler saw for him i said no,he has had 2 since last feb,and i told him i am not going to go and spend 150.00 on another one cuase he dont know how to take care of it..he got mad,he said fine i will take my pay checkand and go buy one, i said go ahead,like i told you before im not buying you anything anymore nor am i paying your bills either he went in the bedroom and slammed the door,he came out and decided he was going to the bar,he wanted to take my car i said no,u have your truck,u r not on my insurance on the car anymore so you cant drive it,plus you have yoyr truck......i cant wait till feb 1 when we r moving out of here{me my daughter her husband and my 2 very small grandchildren r leaving florida and moving back to ny}he doesnt know i am leaving,or that i am moving back to ny{where my family is}im going to write him a letter teling him why im leaving and have it notorized like my lawyer said..but it is going to be grat to be able to be on my own and not have some controlling mean hateful A YELLING AND SCREAMING AND BELITTLEING ME FOR EVERYTHING I DO.....it will be nice to stand on my own 2 feet again

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CJ


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Hey Bev, you are awesome! Plan B, ker ching! You are so worth it.

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lin0606


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Good for you for standing your ground - don't let yourself be bullied.

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debilyn


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Bev you sound very strong. I am so glad  you have a way to get out of there.


You sound so excited. I know you will be happier. I know I am.


Life is so much nicer when no one is yelling and cussing. you don't feel afraid anymore. You will be happy and no A will ruin it.


I hope you will come back and update us. much love,debilyn



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