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Post Info TOPIC: Positive Update on ME!


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Positive Update on ME!


  hey family


             how are you all? hope you are doing well.


just to let u know about my life the last few days.... well you should all know that i was an emotional mess new yrs eve thanks to the emotional and mental abuse of my ex "A". since then..and due to all ur helpful and encouraging comments i have snapped out of my depression..  and started to live my life as opposed to staying stuck in my all too popular rut! in the last week i have doen the following to make positive steps in re-claiming MY life:


  * booked a sun holiday with 5 girlfriends to Spain for July


  * booked and paid for a tattoo for next week that i've wanted done for ages.


  * taken steps to get a counsellor sorted to deal wit my many issues..lol..


  * started re-writing my novel


  * joined the gym and drama club


 phew.... im exhausted just thinking about it. but im glad..im glad im breaking away from the "norm" that i had when i was with my "A". i have no anxiety now..that let when my "A" did. im happy for that.


thank you all for being there when i needed you most of all. im very grateful. xxxxxxxx



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Rebecca Murphy


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(((((Rebecca)))))


So glad you are taking care of you!  That is very encouraging!


Thanks for sharing your progress with us!



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This is awesome!


Thank you for sharing things you are doing for YOU!  May this also be ideas for others, including myself to do for me!


Congrats, on the progress!


Ziggy



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CJ


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great stuff, rebecca.. i'm very proud of you.. very glad you are taking some me-time in spain.  any idea where at? i know the andulocia area pretty well.  beautiful beaches, relaxed living. have a great time, and let go of those worries... time for you!

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Good for you Rebecca, for making a plan :)


Peewee



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rebecca,


Specific goals assure you that you will reach them. I will take heed. Have fun!


In support,


Nancy



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Hi Rebecca,


Missed the rough road but glad to hear your doing things for yourself ! :)


 


Bob



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((((((((((Rebecca)))))))),


Way to go!  Have a wonderful trip to Spain! Eat lots of really good food for me. (I love their ham!)   Now that's a way to get of your rut.  Don't let them get to you. I'm proud of you.


Love and blessings to you.


Live strong,


Karilynn & Pipers Kitty



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That's great. I'm glad to see you doing so well.

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