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Prayers please?


(((Family)))

I'm asking for extra prayers for my nephew Joey, he is my husband's oldest sister's boy. He is in critical condition at this time.
After begging for his life and telling the robber he had 3 kids and a wife, when he turned around to get the money the *&*^%#^&** shot him in the back. Then he forced him to open the safe after being shot and left him for dead.
Here is the news article.

BENTON HARBOR, MI

Robber shoots owner of laundry business

A Benton Township laundry owner was shot during an early-morning robbery Tuesday.

Joseph Defay, 38, had just arrived at his business, Harbor Coin Laundry, about 8 a.m. when an armed man who was apparently hiding inside the building at 1331 Michigan 139 reportedly attacked him, a Benton Township Police Department news release reported.

Police said they believe the gunman broke into the building and waited for Defay to arrive. Defay was hit on the head with the gun and shot before he could open the safe, the release said. He was then forced to open the safe, and the gunman took the money and fled, the release said.

Defay was taken to Lakeland Regional Medical Center in St. Joseph and was treated for a gunshot wound to the back.

The gunman is described as about 5 feet 7 inches tall with dark baggy clothing and a black ski mask with red trim around the eyeholes.

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OMG...how awful.


My prayers are there with all who are concerned. 


Ziggy



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(((((((((((Christy and Nephew))))))))))

Prayers are coming your way hon,

Love ya
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Christy,


I am so very very sorry.  You are in my prayers and thoughts tonight.  How terrible.  I will be thinking of you and praying for you,


Sherri



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(((family)))

I'm fine and thanks, please direct those prayers to Joey and his young family.

Love
Christy

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I'm praying now...Please keep us posted. 

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((((((Christy, Joey and Family)))))))


Prayers are going out for your nephew and his family.  Please keep os posted.


Love,


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(((((Joey, wife, and kidlets)))))) lots of love headin there way my friend. What an amazing young man he is... love you Cjoy

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Oh Christy, this is awful. My prayers and energy go to you and your family.

Diva

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Oh sheese......

prayers for your family ((((((((Christy)))))))))))

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hey ((((((((((Christy))))))))))))) I will be prayering for your Joey and his family!!!!!


Love you Sweetie!!!

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Oh dear ((((( Christy )))))  


Prayers to ((((((( Joey & the Family ))))))



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(((Christy))))

Prayers for Joey and his family....prayers for you and your family.



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Hi Christy,


I will be praying for Joey and his family!  May God give you peace and comfort......I am praying.


God Bless,


Love ya,


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((((((((((Christy))))))))))),


Oh how awful.  Of course hubby and I will keep him and his family in our prayers as well as yours. 


Love and many, many blessing to you all.


We love you,


Karilynn, Hubby and Pipers Kitty



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Christy,


My prayers are with him and his family. I am so sorry this has happened to your family.


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(((Christy)))


I'm so sorry. I will keep him and his family in my prayers.


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Christy,


Just finished saying prayers:


"HP, please touch Joey, heal him, comfort his pain - give him rest so that his body can heal.  Give the Drs, nurses & other staff the insight, direction to treat him with skill and compassion.  Please give comfort and peace to all the family especially Joey's wife & children."


Hate so much that this happened to your family - please let us know how Joey is doing as you have time.


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Prayers said here.


Hugs Mary



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((((((((Christy)))))))))


Of course, prayers for you, nephew and his family.


Keep us updated ~


Love,


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(((((Christy))))))


My prayers and best wishes for Joey and his family.


That whole scene just makes my blood boil.  I hope everyone will be ok.


Take care of you!



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((((((Joey & Family))))))))  (((((Christy)))))  So sorry to hear such an awful thing has happened to your nephew, Joey.  He is in my thoughts and prayers for strength and for swift healing.  HP/God be with Joeys family and with him now to hold and guide him through this.


(((((BEARHug))))) to ya Christy...love you.


 



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Thank you all sooo much for your prayers. I truly believe they matter and are powerful.
Joe is out of the woods as of this morning, and from what we hear is expected to make a full recovery in time.
We were all just so shocked that this happened to one of our own but grateful at the same time. The bullet entered just millimeters from his spine at a close range.

I just hate that there are people llike that in the world that have no respect at all for human life. The robber had no reason to shoot. Joey had every intention of giving him the money.

Joe could be my A's son, they look so much alike it's uncanny. He's always been special to us just because of who he is. He's 38 yrs old but still "little Joe".
I've known him since he was 16. Man! time just goes WHOOOSH!!
Anyway..again, thank you ((family)) It worked :)

Christy



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Christy,


So glad Joey is doing better.  Thanks for the update.


Will continue with prayers for a quick & painless recovery.



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Thank you so much for the update Christy!


I will still keep all who are concerned in my prayers.


Ziggy



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i will continue to put joey and his family in my thoughts and prayers


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Christy, I'm so sorry that happened - will pray for you and your family that HP will comfort you. ((((((((Christy)))))))

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Christy, Prayers from me going out still for Joey and family and you.    Thank God he will recover. 


My first reaction , after sorrow for him, is anger big time.    I can't stand senseless tragedies, as most people can't.    I know most people are good, but those jerks like the gunman really tick me off.   


Again, thank God, now I don't have to manage that &*&&^^head that did it.


Love, PW



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dearest christy,


many prayers for the aftermath of this situation.


some people call it POST TRAUMATIC STRESS SYNDROM.


i am so grateful he pulled through,


and,


so very, very, sad this had to happen to you and your loved ones.


many blessings,


jewely



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OH Christy how horrible. Will keep you all in my prayers..


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(((((christy)))))


Prayers for your nephew and your family.


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(((Christy)))  (((Joey))) we have a Lutheran and a Hindu praying right now!

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Christy,


How awful! I'm so sorry this happened to Joey -- hopefully he will make a full recovery - that's most important! I'll pray for him, his family, and his doctors and caretakers. 


Dear God, Please send angels sit with Joey tonite and comfort him and his family; give them a sense of protection and safety.  God, please ease Joey's pain and touch Your healing hand upon Joey's wound and help it heal. Please provide Joey with the best care; may his doctors and nurses use their all their wisdom, experience and best judgment in his care.   Thank you for getting Joey to the hospital in time and thank you for those that saved his life and liveliness. Please provide his family with the resources to deal with this situation.  Thank you for the love of the family of alanon friends and thank you God for hearing our prayers and saying "Yes!" :)   Amen.


 


Christy... hugs your way!  Lee Ann



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still thinking of you,


and,


praying,


and,


shaking my head tht horrible things like this happen in our world.


much love and blessings,


jewely



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I am so glad to hear he is doing better. I will keep him and your family in my prayers.


 


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Just wanted to update:

Joe went home today to his family!!!!
He says he can't quit walking like John Wayne..Rofl

Thank you all so much for your prayers and good thoughts.

Christy

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