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~*Service Worker*~

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"Optimists"


 Why is it that optimists seem to be so much happier than pessimists?


There is something really wonderful about optimists. They're fun to be


around, aren't they? No matter how bad their situation, optimists can always


find something to enjoy - usually simple things like the taste of a good cup


of coffee, the smell of the air on a fine spring day, the sound of a wind


chime tinkling in the breeze.


Understand that optimism is not saying everything is


getting better every day in every way. Or that the worst is


behind us, or seeing sweetness and light, when what's happening is evil and


ugly.


But optimists know that for all its faults, the world is also filled with


good things to be enjoyed. Positive people know that our


experience in life is largely determined by where we choose to focus our


attention our options.


Optimists understand that happiness is not so much a matter of what we have


and what's going on around us, as it is a choice we make. The wonders and


beauty of life are all around us, right now, right where you are. 


You need to be attentive and open to them and that you make a


conscious choice to see and hear and experience them.


Have you choosen to be happy today? It is up to you.



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RE: "Optimists"


Peggy 7


Thank you for the reminder we can change our attitude.


Bless you,


C



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Thank you Peggy

I needed to read that today. Thanks for your sharing that and the reminder I needed.

your friend in recovery,
rosie

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~*Service Worker*~

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I so agree ((((Peggy)))) which is what makes it difficult for me when I am not in a good mood.

The greatest thing about optimism for me is that I feel sooooooooooo much better too.

Love ya,
Maria

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