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debilyn


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I am afraid I am heading for pnemonia. I called my son to get me to the hospital.


I am ok, not life threatening at this point. Though it feels like it.


I filed a missing person report with the deputy sheriff, and now I am waiting for the police to call me.


I hope to God he is not dead. There would be no way for them to know how to contact family. Our number is under my sons name, so my mil could not call here, or get the number.


So they can fingerprint him to see if he is already dead or back in jail.


When the officer said body I wanted to throw up. I don't want my baby to be a dead body. (husband)


Already did that 25 years ago. I hope my hp would not allow me to go thru it again.


the thought just tears my abdomen out.


 sending you all love, very scared and sad debilyn



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(((((((((((((((((((((Debilyn))))))))))))))))))


I'm sorry your not well. Take care of you. HP will look after your hub.


Your friend in recovery


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Christy


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((((debilyn)))

I sure hope and pray that's not the case.
You are taking care of you by going to the hospital, but I'm afraid the worry is playing a part in making you sick. I guess we can only let go to a certain point, asking someone not to worry if their spouse is dead or not is beyond what I could ever let go of, but we still can "let God". It is especially hard when things looked so promising for him.
I hope there is some reasonable explanation for his absence.

*keeping you and your hubby in my prayers

Christy

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Diva


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Debilyn, know that I am thinking of you and offering my prayers for you and yours. I wish I could make it all go away. Here's a hug.
((((((((((((((((Debilyn)))))))))))))))))))

With love and concern, Diva

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RichardA


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Debilyn

Wishing you well...

Your last few posts sounded like you were running downhill--let the folks at the hospital take care of you for a while...

Everything else is in "THE" potter's hands...

Get well soon and best wishes

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nmike


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((((debilyn))))),


We all hope it works out. Sounds like you are futurizing. Can you turn it over to your HP for awhile? Keep us posted.


In support,


Nancy



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((((((((((((Debilyn))))))))))


Keeping you and yours in my thoughts.  Get the medical attention you need and do the best you can to take care of you.


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(((((Deb))))) I will keep praying for you, and hoping you feel better soon.  Glad you are going to the hospital.  You have had so much on your shoulders lately.  I'm thinking you need a lot of rest.


I will be anxiously awaitiing the word about your husband.  HP is taking care of him, so you can take care of yourself. 


Love in Recovery,


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