Hi Sara,

 I tried to respond  to your private message privately.Some reason I couldnt or didnt know how.So here is my reponse

 I am sorry you felt it was a attack on you as I said in my post it wasnt I said it was about my issues not yours I responded.I do not think every alcholic should go to prison that is not what I said.

I said to be thankful at least in prison he wasnt driveing under the influence like he got the 5 dui in the past.I didnt mean any hidden agenda from that.I  do understand loveing a alcholic that is why I came to alanon someone I loved very deeply and still do but am not with any more.

I understand haveing hope this time it works and he stays sober I do and I comend you for that hope. Keep at it working it .I pray that your marriage works and he does stay sober and yes I do pray he doesnt drive under the influence does that make me as you said a angry person cause i dont want to see any one not just your husband but any one drinking and driveing and i am sorry for your lost of relatives it hurts i know pain as you do and i would never intentiouly attack any one on this site and i go to aa posts all the time have friends in aa i am not again aa or people getting sober i  just dont like people driveing drunk enough said if i offended you i am sorry.but as you ask of me to see your side see mine.

 dori