Today is my 38th wedding anniversary and Im trying to work my program to not feel hurt and disappointed that he once again, he has not said or done anything to acknowledge the day. I should be used to it, but it still hurts. In the past I would plan things, buy him something or say happy anniversary. His response would be he didnt want to go sit in a restaurant, he didnt get me anything but hed thought about it, are you mad? I wish I had been in Al Anon then. I would have answered quite differently. I would like him to say happy anniversary without me saying it first because if I say it first I wouldnt be saying it for the right reasons. I am talking with my higher power on how to handle this along with a few other things. I am much stronger than I use to be thanks to the program. Thanks for listening/reading. I just needed to vent.