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Post Info TOPIC: Little Prayer Please


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Little Prayer Please


Just a little prayer, that I continue to work my program and have the strength not to talk to the disease. 


I worked very late last night out observing a job at the job site, I have now been accused of being selfish and cheating on my A.


I am asking my HP to guide me with my words and actions.


Hugs Mary



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Hi Mary,


It is the insecurity of the A that makes him question you.  If you are not close to him then they automatically think you must have another man. (Would we be that stupid?) lol.  My friend has this with her A husband he does not realize that it is the alcohol that is the problem.  Say the serenity prayer you need it at the moment.  Luv Leo xx



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Hi Mary


((((((MAry)))))) What other people think of us is none of our business....


That said, when I lived with my husband he accused me of cheating on him with various friends, coworkers etc. It was all crap, I never cheated.


The disease seems to need to provoke us. Don't get caught in the trap. You don't need to attend every argument that you are invited to.


In support


Megan



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Prayers for you.


Love in Recovery,


Becky1



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((((Mary))))


 


Yes, you are right, not reacting to the disease talking now may serve for your serenity down the road.


I am sure you know, this moment will pass
care and wishes, t



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Prayers coming your way (((((((((((((((Mare)))))))))))))

yours in recovery,
Maria

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If I am not for me, who will be?  If I am only for myself, then who am I?  If not now, when?
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