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My BFF with cancer, they can't even treat her cancer till they knock out these infections in her body....Urinary tract and kidneys....Her hubs had to call 911 and they took her to hosp. Thurs night
I sensed something wrong as I hadn't heard from her on Friday , But by the time I got done with all my "stuff" it was too late to call
thank you all for your continued prayer.....I'm sad...they can't even BEGIN on her cancer till they get her over this latest setback.......Lord help her!!!!
Sorry to hear of her setback. I know she means a lot to you, ((Rose))) and you're worried. Saying a prayer that the infections clear quickly and she can move forward with her treatment. We all handle worry in our own way but keeping busy with my usual daily routines has helped me when I'm waiting for news. Thank you for the update, Rose. TT
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Thank you (((((((((((((((Catherine and TT and David))))))))))))))))) I'm just taking it easy today, doing easy little tasks,....easy does it, feeling fatigued......
and TT, I am exactly like you....DO something...MOVE my body.....even if it is easy, small task....it takes me away from the worry............AND pray to my HP, step 3 it......I have her valentine card on my wall, before all this happened.....I look at it and send her angel love all the time.....
Those are not good signs
That is a very hsrd life
That on top of COVID
Sone people's course with cancer is really harrowing. Thise infections alone can kill you.
I prey your friend gets some relief
In the last few years I have lost people
I have had to go out and get some new support. In fact that is high on my list of things to do when this COVID is over.
I hope you are seeking support
Set limits. I know huw hard it is to set limits
I have to look at people in my life oretty hard. My room mate has made my life much harder. I would have been better off going to the hotel nuch nuch nuch better off. That is typical of an alcoholic. They make our lives harder. There are only THEIR needs nothing else. Talk about being self absorbed. No one else exists
When I am getting the ping ping ping noise my needs are nkt being observed I have to readjust. Then I have to accept reaity
Maresie
well it MAY not be so bad after all...the needle they stuck her in the back with to drain fluid out of her lungs, somehow messed up her system and she had "markers" that shot up...she got sick as a dog, couldn't eat, it was awful...NOW we have to wait at least a week/10 days for to start her cancer treatment, but Imagine a NEEDLE used to drain her caused this....((((((((Maresie)))))))) Praying for you to get your OWN flat, FAST
I got my apartment. I am in the process of moving back in. Moving is super tedious
Moving around an alcoholic practically impossible.
Moving on your own with no help is bad
The lungs are nasty stuff
Doing this on top of Covid is realky tough going
Having your lungs drained us awful. I know people who have issues with their lungs that is a realky hard life
Anything to do with the lung is really hard onw reason i am trying to lose weight is because I get short of breath easily ..
Your poor friend is really in the woods. Infections are tough
Chemo can be really tough too.
That is a really difficult life
