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Hope for Today Nov 24


Good morning Everyone-

Todays reading is about being willing to do the work we need to do in order to make the changes we want in our lives.  The writer describes getting a sponsor after a long time and noticing that her recovery accelerated with the help of another person. This got me thinking about how living with alcoholism can be so isolating.  The A can become consumed with the drinking cycle and the person loving the A can be consumed with every part of the drinking cycle of the A.  It becomes difficult to be part of a normal and loving relationship without chaos, trying to fix another person, etc.

Many years ago I was at a meeting and one of the people sharing was a woman who described some situations in her life that anyone would have said were quite negative.  In spite of this, the aura about her was relaxed, content, positive.  I remember thinking Ill have what shes having.  As the writer of todays page suggests, I decided to do the work I needed to do in order to get closer to a serene life.  Showing up at meetings, doing the readings, working the steps, consistent work with my sponsor, have all been helpful ways to keep steering me on that path.

I love the quotation at the end of todays page from How Alanon Works for Families and Friends of Alcoholics (p37):

The most important thing is to be willing to reach out and ask for the help we need, human to human.

I hope everyone enjoys their Sunday!

M



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Thank you Mary for your service and the daily! Have a lovely Sunday - I plan to do so!!

I can be stubborn and resist change, yet can readily testify that my serenity, joy and sanity are directly related to my willingness of action. I have slowly learned by practicing that I don't have to be a step guru or spend extreme amounts of time/energy in practicing recovery - I just need to be willing to do some things each/every day. I love my local support I've gained in recovery. I am grateful each day for the many persons who've become a part of my journey. I read a quote today -

Spider Robinson, b. 1948. Shared pain is lessened. Shared joy is increased. Thus we refute entropy.

This spoke to me as it has been my experience! I am off to a meeting shortly - so grateful for the beautiful sun shine, warmer temperatures today, a meeting on the horizon and an afternoon of football!!! A lovely Sunday indeed! (((Hugs)))

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aww Thanks Mary, and hi Iam...

                                                  I was hankering for our own hometown group- but wanted to do this one one day at a time. Thanksgiving is arriving to North America. In NZ and OZ all our family dreams are invested in Christmas and New Year. A good time to reach out to people who are still living with drinking and/or drugging... ...but, again I have to look after me, and my own family. I did raise the issue of out-reach with the group down the road... ...and I am certain I don't want to go it alone. Or maybe time to put my readers back on the bookshelf and slip into retirement from active recovery?

I plan to work on step 12 through December- including a visit to ta F@F meeting. Gratitude time. And to have a good look at Tradition 5, maybe in the New Year. One message [right now] coming from my higher power- "wait to be asked".

Yep, okay- who is going to ask? Where is the balance between giving and getting?

If I keep sharing I might start getting answers... ???



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Good morning all! Thank you for your insights!

Thank you Mary for your service today!

I am more content, more serene when I do the "work" needed. I tend to slip into old patterns, so always attending to the "work" is a good thing for me!

I hope you all enjoy your Sunday, Funday too!



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