The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I really would like to know if anyone has some literature that states the obstacles to success in Al anon? I haven't seen a copy in a long time. We used to read it in my past Al anon group. Haven't seen it for over 20 years.
http://asp-afg.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/obstacles_to_success.htm
Is this the one you mean? I'd never heard of it till you mentioned it but a quick search revealed this, if it helps Kathleen.
HI Kathleen, here is a version directly from the Al-Anon World Service Manual. In my location, some meetings read it and some do not.
Three Obstacles to Success in Al-Anon*
All AlAnon discussions should be constructive, helpful, loving,
and understanding. In striving toward these ideals, we avoid topics
that can lead to dissension and distract us from our goals.
1. Discussions of religion: AlAnon is not allied with any sect
or denomination. It is a spiritual program, based on no par
ticular form of religion. Everyone is welcome, no matter what
affiliation or none. Let us not defeat our purpose by entering
into discussions concerning specific religious beliefs.
2. Gossip: We meet to help ourselves and others learn and use
the AlAnon philosophy. In such groups, gossip can have no
part. We do not discuss members or others, and particularly
not the alcoholic. Our dedication to anonymity gives people
confidence in AlAnon. Careless repeating of matters heard
at meetings can defeat the very purposes for which we are
joined together.
3. Dominance: Our leaders are trusted servants; they do not
govern. No member of AlAnon should direct, assume author
ity or give advice. Our program is based on suggestion, inter
change of experience, and rotation of leadership. We progress
in our own way and pace. Any attempt to manage or direct
is likely to have disastrous consequences for group harmony
We do not read these in detail, unfortunately, but make mention of the three key words - Religion, Gossip and Dominance. I believe these should be discussed more! Thanks for asking the question Kathleen!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
