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Sad news for our whanau...


 

 It's the call you dread...

it was actually an email from Texas... our youngest brother passed away last night...

the programme kicks in here... and the faith and love that comes with it... oh my gosh... 



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So very sorry to hear this David. sending prayers for peace for you and your family.

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This is sad news for your family. My prayers go to you and your family for healing.

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(((((((David))))))))'


I am so sorry.

In my experience, grief can be a bittersweet time--because happy memories come flooding back along with the tears. May this be the case for with you.

Temple

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Oh David,

Big hugs sending many prayers and condolences.

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(((David))) Sorry for the loss of your brother. Prayers for you and your family at this sad time. TT



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((((David)))) This is the time where HP asked for acceptance and I learned to do it.  The family can do it best together.  smile



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Oh, I'm so sorry.  Wishing you much strength, and keeping you and your family in my thoughts.



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So sorry for your loss, David..I'm sending you comfort prayers

May peace be with you during this difficult and sad time...Take care



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Deepest sympathy to you David. Serenity prayer can help bring us through hard times like this.  Thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.     wp



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I'm so sorry David, such sad and difficult news, may peace be with you and your family.

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(((David))) - so, so very sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and the family as you grieve. We are here for you as best we can be - you are not alone!

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(((David))) So Very Sorry to Hear of Your Loss, Adding you to My Prayers

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 Thanks y'all for your kind words, thoughts and prayers... aww ...

   I am flying over the Pacific now as I wrote this- heading for Texas... to deal with M.'s passing... I needed to come...

Not a good time for open sharing- still trying to process everything.

I think that losing a child would be the worst thing... but grief is grief, no matter what the circumstances...

...today I have the courage to face it... past generations had a regular and more predictable way to do this...blankstare

So glad ah'm in Alanon... oh yes! 

 

Roimata ua, roimata takata...

as rain falls, so do the tears of humankind... 



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((David)) your courage and wisdom are indeed impressive . Safe journey

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Bless you, David

I hope you brought warm jumpers and the like. It was 30F this morning in our part of Texas. Of course, Texas is so big we have five planting zones, perhaps.

Take care of you, please.

It is a shock when a younger member of the family dies.

We are all with you in spirit

Temple

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Safe travels, & continued prayers!

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My deepest simphony goes out to you David ,for the loss of a loved one,
Hugs.........Lu

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I send my deepest sympathy to you in the loss of your brother.

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Condolences to you and your family, god bless

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David, may you know the comfort of HP's intimate presence as you walk this path.

If you need a meeting or three while in TX, you should be able to find one easily on the web.

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Sorry for your loss David. Hope your ok x

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