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ive done all I know to do on my part,phone calls,talking to landlord,along with lots of prayers to my hp on the what when and how part to all this,
this was becoming very overwhelming to me thoughts of going from a big house to small apt,ha,
with hp help only can make anything possible ,I know this,in trying to believe in myself that i can do this,
i will have and get all the man power I'll need in and with this move.
my hp is guiding me now as I tell this I can feel his spirit within me,
i just made a phone call ,very important call,said I'll have to wait on the next apartment that comes for rent within this same area,that was a load lifted off me,
plots of things have to and needs to take place before I can move.
im grateful for my hp today and that I've allowed him to take control and except what he has done for me,in telling me to wait is hp message to me now.
i am staying atop of things,tryingto keep in line what hp wants me to do next right thing.
im not perfect in none of this just I'm trying to progress best I know how,
i so thank each and everyone here for listening to me and being concerned with all your great and much needed esh I've been getting here also,
not to many seem concerned here,seems more hurt feelings,and I do hate that,
i know I got to do this for me,me only.
no apts here in this town I'd want,for no washers or dryer hookups laundry mats only,
that me having my washer n dryer is a biggie to me,
anyway ,just one gripe I had,
need a change,50 yrs living here ,this town,
pill just be one town over,20 min drive,I've assured everyone I will come visit..
thank y'all in advance for your insights and esh on this topic ,moving away...........hugs...LU
Thanks for the update LU - you sound good and I see your program in action....keep doing you - looks good on ya! (((Hugs)))
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Just got off phone with landlord that has apt,
He wants me to keep him updated from month to month on my statis as far as getting everything in order,
Said he had another apt.he would like to put me in that's coming empty ,
I'm taking all this as my hp is telling me to get ready ,it's gonna happen .
I'm glad it's one day at a time that I now know to live,I can do a lot in one day when I put my mind to it......hugs LU
I moved states and I would say I didn't know anyone however that's not totally true however it was very limited like 1 or 2 people and texas is a BIG state .. LOL.
What an exciting adventure and there is nothing wrong with going back for a visit. My visits back to my old state are not as long as I like and it sounds like you will be in an area that will be much closer so yes .. visits are great and people can come see you!!
If I had it to do all over again with the challenges and so on .. heck YES .. I would do it again .. I am sooo happy for you in this next journey of yours .. yes .. it is scary, the unknown is never fun .. however it is the unknown to me that is just as exhilarating .. I hope you will find that too.
I just encourage you to embrace the new changes and remember to enjoy the ride.
Hugs S :)
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hey Lookingup....well WE care about your search for a flat...and one will come and yea...having my own washer and dryer is a biggie for me too......prayers rising for you............
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Thanks for all the great esh ,
I am excited about getting a brand new start in life,with new everything.
I won't be a complete stranger either,I do know a good bit of folks there,
And my alanon home group meetings are there,so I'm excited about that to.more meetings I can get to.
Just I hope I'm not running ahead of myself ,seems so real already and I haven't an address yet,
I know it will all work out the way it should in the long run.so I can rest assured knowing that......