The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Just speaking for myself HN.......I have been waiting until I feel peace/serenity from God before acting as much as possible. I know I won't blow it, foot in mouth problem......... or be sunk in emotions when that cue is there for me..........
I'm reminded of the slogan....when in doubt, don't! That has served me well in addition to what has been suggested above me. Prayers and positive thoughts continue (((Kathleen)))....
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene