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i too am suffering through a cold but after reading several posts here,decided to post myself. my struggle which is to remember to let my boyfriend do his own thing without me fearing he will think less of me. neither him or i have any addiction issues. i have all my old negative tapes that continue to run but im working on them im trying so hard to learn from my ex marriage and be with my new guy[2yrs this week together] in a healthy way
practicing letting go...
also want to thank all my alanon pals here. all of you help me throughout the year and im so grateful
i wish all of you Warm Holidays Greetings and a wonderful healthy insightful peaceful New Year !!!
Hey (((Alyce))) - great to see you. So sorry you're battling a cold - hope you feel better soon! I can't speak for anyone but me, but when I am under the weather, I tend to be a bit more 'crazy'. Not always sure why but being gentle with me is difficult and harder even when I feel sick.
Take good care of you and a lovely and happy holiday season to you too!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
