The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
The ODAT reading for October 7 speaks about how we felt before entering the rooms of Al-Anon and points out the changes that occur once we start practicing the program. The reading suggests that we come into program angry and fearful and walking around in the dark .
After a few meetings we learn that we have the power to turn on the lights so as to get a clear view of life's difficulties and our part in the insanity . Even though we are in program we occasionally forget to turn on the lights and then we can hurt ourselves. Once again. If we are looking for light on a grim situation we can find it in Al-Anon. Nobody can force us to accept the program tools but if you want to live life with courage, wisdom and serenity using the tools allows us to deal with life on life's terms and finally" see things differently."
The quote is from Genesis : and God said let there be light --life always dispels the darkness
I remember entering the rooms of Al-Anon and being filled with h anger, resentment, self-pity and fear. I had the misunderstanding that I was going to receive information on how to get the alcoholic to stop drinking. This is not so. Instead I was handed literature. that suggested that I was powerless over people places and things and the only person that I can affect change on was myself. I was also handed the steps, slogans and the Just for Today bookmark.I left the meeting feeling hopeful and determined to keep coming back.
Good morning Betty and happy Saturday. Thank you for your service and the daily. I also appreciate your ESH. I too arrived looking for a plan to fix my alcoholic(s). I was angry, sad, broken and full of anxiety, blame and shame. I really felt I was a failure that I could not 'carry the message' for a better life to those I love with this disease.
My first glimmer of hope came from the 3 C(s). I did not Cause this, I can not Cure this and I could not Control it. For a reason only know to a power greater than me, this gave me a moment of peace followed by hope. When those who came before me described what powerless was in Al-Anon, I did feel hope that I could find peace by looking at and changing me.
It's true that I have forgotten to turn on the lights at times in recovery. I really like this reading as it reminds me I have choices and can hit that switch when I forget! I am grateful for recovery and the tools we are given.
We've had some rain overnight - and I believe that Fall has arrived...supposed to clear off and have sunshine this afternoon. Ironically, both groups I frequent on the weekend are having fellowship gatherings this weekend - tonight and tomorrow. So - a weekend of recovery and fellowship is on my agenda and the timing is awesome. Make it a great day!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
