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Everyone please read and help me


The other day someone posted about forgiveness and I replied that I really liked what they said.  I am having a hard time with forgiveness, anger and resentment.  I repeated the line to myself all day that day and I could feel my anger melt.  I am sitting here crying and feeling panicked and am not sure why.  Who said it?  What was the line?  I tried reading back posts and I can't find it and the longer I look the less I can breathe.  Please help me.  It was wonderful...something about giving it back to them to deal with with their HP.  I desparately need to know what it is.  Why can't I find it.  If you postewd it or saw it please tell me because it calmed me so much and i need it now.  please

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((((((powerless)))))) sorry I can't help you with that line, but I am sending HP over to hold you in His arms right now.  He is on his way.  Just keep breathing, s l o w l y.  HP will hold you tight, turn it over to HP.


Sorry you are feeling bad tonight.  Just slow down, and it might come back to you. If I find it, I will let you know!


Love in Recovery


Becky1



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Oh powerlessEveryone is here for you.Your not alone


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I tell myself when times are rough, "this to shall pass!!!" Ask HP for guidance, if the door is open, and I know how to look, I will become aware! I also visit http://www.inspiringthots.net/ . Blessings , Your sister in Recovery


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(((((((((Powerless)))))))))


I'm not sure which post you mean. I searched forgivness and came up with these two;


From Ria: personally would have resented my A BIG-TIME if he interfered in my recovery, such as it may be. There was a time when I lived in fear of relapse just the same as I did the next drink. It totally disabled me. All I could do was work harder on my own recovery, place my fear in the hands of my HP and hand him over to his.


 


From Kitty: So after so long of being "depressed" I am working on experiencing gratitude, happiness, joy, appreciation, forgiveness & compassion ~ INSTEAD!


 Please take care, we are all here for you.


                                                                                 Love Jeannie


 



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Hi ((((Powerless)))),


If you replied to the post on the message board, you can get back to the post by going to the message board, and clicking on your name and then selecting user profile. On that page, you'll be able to see all the messages you sent and all you replied to, and find the post you're looking for. Hope this helps!


Cheers,


BlueCloud



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Powerlessness,


This may be it:


... Forgiving others does not mean forgetting, it means releasing them to their own lessons, for me to focus on my own lessons...


This may also help, pick up any daily Conference Approved Literature and look in the index for readings on forgiveness.


Also there's a book called "Forgiving the Unforgiveable"


I hope it helps :hugs:


love Maria



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Oh Powerless, I'm so sorry I can't help you. I remember reading it too but can't think where. There's just so much info here it's hard to narrow it down. I hope if you replied you can use the User Details, if not maybe the suggestion about reading the daily entries may help. I can't even come up with any other ideas...


I hope you find some peace, please breathe, if you can try to slow yourself down a bit maybe it'll come to you. Maybe HP will inspire you. I hope so.


(((((((((((((((Powerless)))))))))))))))


With love


Maria X



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Oh my, I think I found it! You replied to -Warning- Life is a BUMPY ride! by Kitty. Its currently still on the 1st page of the message board. "Forgiving people means releasing them to their own lessons." That's what the other Maria found but I thought you may want to re-read the post. I asked HP to help me help you. I hope this is it!


With more love


Maria X



-- Edited by Ria at 23:37, 2006-03-27

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Power,


Sending hugs from Australia and remember it is okay to forgive yourself as well when you get angry - you are human.  We care about you please keep posting.  Luv Leo xx


 


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