The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I am going to not figure out what might happen in my future, but look at the present moment and see the beauty in my surroundings. I am going to enjoy my visit with my sister and not think about what my AH might do! I am going to bring humor into my day like making laughing animal noises with my kids to not feel the anxiety balled inside of me. I will make plans and keep my thoughts busy with joy and happiness. I will tell myself I am doing great and I am loved. I will overcome my day and enjoy every minute. I will tell the voices in my head to not figure everything out and stop fixing everything. I will read positive quotes and apply them to my life. I tell myself I need to cheer myself up and not feel guilty about another persons behavior. I will do something nice for someone which helps me not think about my problems. I will tell myself life has so many things to show me if I will be open to let them in my life.
Thanks for sharing, Lexie. I love the positivity for just today!
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Skorpi
If you are depressed, you are living in the past. If you are anxious, you are living in the future. If you are at peace, you are living in the present. - Lao Tzu
Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
Hello Lexie Thank you for such a positive share . I too love the "Just for Today " Bookmark and attempt to practice each item once a day.
Program tools work when we work them. Thanks for the reminder :)
Hey Lexie...You go girl!!! enjoy sister, let AH do what hes gotta do..Love your plan here!!!! I find that when I am majorally stressed (a lot of late with this horrid year) I get out and MAKE me have fun..sports...brousing thrift shops...visiting close friends (I have no family here, not really..separated from adopted daughter and her mental abuse) so I just "do life" for me..with me...lots of times alone, but its OK, I am doing happy stuff...........and yes, if i am open, life CAN be fun, if I open my heart to it..........VERY nice share, Lexie, you enjoy!!!!!! take care