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ive been away from the board while in transit to my new home which belongs to my boyfriend. he has never had a girlfriend live with him. he is a total packrat and ive been busy cleaning and sorting just to feel comfortable here. we have had a few spats but ive used alot of alanon tools. i got my disability so now i have a safety net. i just give what i can for utlities etc to him which is fine for me. its quiet here and i can walk to library,buses,stores etc it is a nice area. im very happy. looking forward to 2 graduations, car trips etc. my cat loves it here and has gotten very attached to my guy. hope all of u are ok
Hey (((Alyce))) - good to see you - hope you are feeling better! Glad to hear you and your kitty are adjusting to your new home! It does sound lovely - enjoy, enjoy and enjoy! (((Hugs)))
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
So glad you're OK. Roof and a safety net, nice companion, happy cat, and things to enjoy. I know the pack rat thing was and is a bit hard, still. Glad you're base is sorted. Hugs.