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Bethany66


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Today I read in one of the posts a comment from a member that really struck a chord with me.   I am paraphrasing, because I cannot find the quote now, but it was something to the effect of, I no longer get upset if my A drinks because it may be this drink that brings him to his bottom.  I really liked that.  I hope I can remember it and not get tensed out and crazy when I see the bottles.  I can simply hope that this is the drink that he has right before he hits the bottom and realizes he needs a new way of coping with life.  

And if it's not that drink I can learn a way to be okay.  Such a program.  Such a process.



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Great awareness and acceptance Bethany

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(((Bethany))) - I agree - great awareness and acceptance. I am often amazed at how the program unfolds and more is revealed as I need it!!

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I agree it's a helpful way to see it and helps to let go. Thanks for the reminder

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thank you I needed to read this today.

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Found it!!! " Every drink the alcoholic takes is one step closer to their bottom...let them gave the drink and suffer consequences of it...Have another drink, I do not care..."
It's in the "Focus" post on the first page of the message board by joker.

My first time posting on this forum. I've enjoyed and been humbled, blessed, and encouraged by the shares from everyone. Thanks everybody



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Welcome to MIP Liz14 - glad you found us and glad that you joined right in! Keep coming back!

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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging.  Pause before assuming.  Pause before accusing.  Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret.  ~~~~  Lori Deschene

 

 
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