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I am hurt that my daughter or sister will not help me. I had day surgery 2 days ago and I am in a lot of pain. Complete bed rest. I have three holes put in my stomack and a camera put in..found out that my bladder was stick to another tissue..doctor had to cut it out and put on antibiotics for infection inside stomack. I send a message to my sister and daughter to come and help me, but I am ignored. I am angry that when I need help, they are not around or refuse to help me. Yet I go out of my way to help them
I am angry. I had day surgury 2 days on my stomack. I had three holes put in it and a camera inside my stomack. Found out my bladder was connected to some tissue, doctor had to cut. I am hurting bad and I asked my older sister and daughter to help me and they do no respond. I need someone to cook for me and clean the house and I have no fuckin help. Yet when they ask for help. I am there. I am tired of being used by people even my own daughter.
As well, my first husband, who lives across the country, he got mad at me and disconnected me from Facebook. This summer me and my current bf drove across the country and visited with my bf family. My ex-husband was 3 hours away and expected me to drive and see him. He refuse to drive to see me. He kept saying his father is sick and he needs to be close by. I see that as an excuse. He expected me to drive three hours and get a hotel for hima and I, to have sex in. I refused and now he is livid angry and said to me, I can not believe your drove across the country and did not even see me and my family. First of all, I was not seeing your family, I was there to be with my current bf family.
He told me to f**off and I said you lazy a**hole f**k off too..
I am finding I have less tolerance for people BS as I get stronger!
I do not deserve to be guilt ridden for my choice...I was with my current bf and I do not have affairs...end of story
Had to let this out...thanks for letting me vent!
-- Edited by hotrod on Wednesday 9th of November 2016 01:44:45 PM
Gosh Joker that sounds somewhat like the insanity I use to live with married to the alcoholic/addict qualifier. I hated acting like that and still do no matter to who. It always pained me to treat another in that manner even though I did at times and then did worse. I hope this was the last bad day you have for a long while. The program is made for instances like this. Keep coming back. (((hugs)))
