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My divorce is final in Dec. I think detaching is forver thugh. He, in a period of clarity keeps calling me about some odd pieces of clothes that he claims are mine that he intends to mail. Believe me, when i left i took everything i wanted so i wouldnt have to return. Its a ploy so he can vaguely ask me favors about selling the house and my opinons about his situation etc. I refuse to play,he wont remember anything a second after i say it. His sister is handling him now as he is incapable of paying his bills etc.
(((Alyce))) - doing the happy dance for you for your progress and upcoming December!!! Keep working it girl - you're wearing it well!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
