The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I was blessed to celebrate my 50th birthday w friend & family. My sister & bro in law drove about 900 miles just to be here for me. They surprised me. What a special visit! Some of my al anon friends helped greatly & did things for me that I had trouble doing for myself. Gifts & cards in abundance. But it easy wasn't about the gifts but about who was there & the fellowship. I am so grateful for everyone who was there. I felt loved & spoiled. 50 is the best! My husband wanted to do the food &bought the cake & ice cream. My mom was here too. She paid for half the cake. So glad there were more family members than I expected. I have no other family here since my mom moved down south. Most of my family lives down there. So grateful. I had expectations I won't lie. I wanted perfection. I got just exactly what I needed. God did what I couldn't do myself. One more thing. I got flowers from my special friends& roses from my husband. My cup runneth over.
(((Kathleen))) - so happy for you and your special day!!! Thanks for coming back and telling us about it! Love the surprise visit from other family....too cool!!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
How wonderful Kathleen I am so happy for you. I have always said that my life felt as if it began at 40 and got considerably better at 50. Keep on keeping on.