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somehow after standing for myself and explaining myself to one of those moderators here why removing my posts from qouting older topics and forcing to start new topic of it, i discovered that my ip of my tablet is banned and i could not read this forum from my tablet....seriously does message of Al-Anon is carried forth in such rude and unwelcoming manner?????
I came here desperate to read some older members of al anon esh in order to deal well with my a friend and protect myself and stay sure as i was alone last monday in my local al anon mtg and got such welcoming :s it makes me very sad how ppl can behave....
Kadrilisia, if you used abusive language or your messages were clearly not relevant to al-anon discussion this might explain why they were removed. To have your ip banned you would have had to be either abusive/aggressive or posting inappropriate content. The only other explanation I can offer is that there was a mistake made. I didn't see your post so I can't know what happened.
I'm sorry you feel your time was wasted and I encourage you to familiarise yourself with the forum guidelines and then share your story again if you wish to; I'm sure you will be welcomed.
-- Edited by missmeliss on Thursday 21st of July 2016 10:17:37 AM
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If I had a world of my own, everything would be nonsense. Nothing would be what it is, because everything would be what it isn't. And contrary wise, what is, it wouldn't be. And what it wouldn't be, it would. You see? (Lewis Caroll)
I private messaged my concerns regarding the older postings. You are certainly welcome to seek support from alanon for any issue/ concern that you might have. You did not share about your concerns and only re posted old "acoa material" and responded to these posts with ACOA material suggestions.Just as you have below
Hi welcome aboard. No offence, but you seem hostile. What's up? You like older posts, OK sweet, read them. You relate to acoa, OK, lots of us here are acoa. You've come for all anon support. Alright this is an alanon board. I can't see a problem. Is it the end of the world if an off topic post gets deleted? Or does it just become a nice distraction from the reason you came?
sorry english is not my mother language and i should be nice and humble and whatever other people pleasing stuff when my small esh was deleted and after i tried to protect myself or stand for myself i got my ip banned???? :O seriously i am speechless still.... it is first forum when i has got banned in first day of using it....anyway i think getting my tablet ip unbanned and playing those people pleasing games here do not deserves my nerves as i was working tired and sleepy when i joined with this forum....sorry if i am offended anyone here but this is not best al anon welcome what the suggested ending says what is read outloud in al anon face to face mtgs sometimes...
Welcome back K. In respect for one of alanon's basic concepts of " placing principles above personalities" I would simply like to state that no one expects "people pleasing " behavior only the simple respect for Alanon's First Tradition that states:
"Our common welfare should come first-personal progress for the greatest number depends on unity."
in general i understand this tradition...never had issue with it before...but please let me recover then and remove the ban from my tablet ip...how i can recover when i can not read even.... ;(
Kadrilisia, if you used abusive language or your messages were clearly not relevant to al-anon discussion this might explain why they were removed. To have your ip banned you would have had to be either abusive/aggressive or posting inappropriate content. The only other explanation I can offer is that there was a mistake made. I didn't see your post so I can't know what happened.
I'm sorry you feel your time was wasted and I encourage you to familiarise yourself with the forum guidelines and then share your story again if you wish to; I'm sure you will be welcomed.
-- Edited by missmeliss on Thursday 21st of July 2016 10:17:37 AM
thank you... it was nothing abusive...i just shared my experience with debts in one post and in another posted about info of acoa brb in kindle...it all makes me very sad
No worries. Perhaps it'd be good to make a new post and introduce yourself and let us know what brings you here?
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If I had a world of my own, everything would be nonsense. Nothing would be what it is, because everything would be what it isn't. And contrary wise, what is, it wouldn't be. And what it wouldn't be, it would. You see? (Lewis Caroll)
Also, if you have acoa info to share, there is an acoa board here at MIP. But this is an al-anon board and posting acoa information isn't in keeping with our guidelines, which ask that we keep our conversations to al-anon topics. So please post about your al-anon related issues here and post your acoa information on the acoa board.
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If I had a world of my own, everything would be nonsense. Nothing would be what it is, because everything would be what it isn't. And contrary wise, what is, it wouldn't be. And what it wouldn't be, it would. You see? (Lewis Caroll)
Thanx MissLiss...why i searched for acoa info was that i wanted to found info about al anon acoas or authentic information about it....there had been acoa info from past years...this acoa board is more aca one it seems to me....but ok
-- Edited by kadriliisa on Friday 22nd of July 2016 09:31:28 AM
Welcome to MIP Kadrillisa 