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As lots know here me and my a/sis are having to separate from each other ,I want to blame it all on the desease ,anyway she says she can't wait to get out of my house,but I still don't believe her cause I made it way to easy for her to do what she wants ,she had it easy living here barely pay 200 a mth,included everything except food she bought her own food but every payday she would complain that a dept collector pulled most her money off her card,she can't have a bank account every bank around she has over drafted so many times that she had to get a money card,non responsible,getting on with my story,she is now complaining with her ribs saying one might be broke and now her wrists are hurting really bad ,now she can't pack a box because of this ,she is and has been sending out warnings to me that she will have me locked up for assault and bodily harm,I don't know if she has been to get X-rays done or not or if she is just lieing,my boyfreind said that she showed it to him and he says it's pretty swollen,still no brace,no wrist brace,she gets around just fine,comes and goes.driveing still,my landlord is really good lawyer,I've done went to him and told him what happened,he told me what to do and if the affidavit thing didn't work for me to call him back and he would take care of it and that she would be removed from my residence but also that he didn't care about the other of her broke rib and wrist,but he would just make sure she was outta my home,the police took a report of what I said ,and suggested I have her committed and where to go and ask what all is there to having a sibling committed,which she does need it but I really don't want to be the one then I was told and what if she over doses then how would you feel about that cause she is a suicidel tendencies in past,till I told her next time she done that to me acting all suicidal planning that I would call on her,she stopped that. Feeling like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place at times but am turning it all over to my hp as I understand him,and letting it go,trusting in gods plans for this is his........in recovery....lu....................esh please.
((LU)) I am pleased that you explored your options and obtained legal advise. It appears that you received excellent suggestions from the local police and the legal council.
Praying for guidance is a wonderful tool and now I suggest that you continue to pray for the courage and wisdom to act on HP's guidance.
Thank you Betty all your great,wonderful,and full of wisdom esh you have been giving me for years now,you are truely a blessing in my life Betty,every one here on this board are true.y angels without wings I have to say,I feel like I'm in the wrong state ,town maybe,I often wonder where are their ppl like here,I know of none in my town.and so true ,it's time to act on it whatever Heavenly Father it's all in his hands. But I must act on it,I'm been sitting here for hrs now just meditating on the sit.thats no good just given sister more power on me,so I think I'll just keep saying and repeating the serenity prayer ,and anything else I can use to help me,and not fearing ,being kind to myself,and I can keep positive on everything,it's sad it's come to such a crises as this,I can't help but think if this is a typical addict or has she always been this way all our lives and I've just been so blind to her,cause I'm younger than she by 2 yrs,and I've always looked up to her and loved her like a sister should be.but as I think back I'm starting to see some of them flags where I have to admit she has shut me out of her life time n time again,and I'd always hurt so bad for that sisterly love that I really never got,only used by her,I didn't want to see it,I'm sure there's still a lot more that I'm still in deniel with that's yet to come out.....hugs ,in recovery lu
