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me and a/sister haven't been getting along for a while now,so I snapped and well she dont look to good ,no marks on me,she called the law hopeing to have me locked up,law hasn't got here but theres a law called castle doctrine that I have all rights to defend myself in y home she has only been a very over welcomed her stay in my home ,I'm cooling down now,and beginning to focus on myself.gonna give all this time to heal and then call the law myself to. Have her permanently removed from my home,I can't get her out by myself.......posting here sure does help ,I hope my posts are helping others to ....hugs lu
Just hated it come down to this destructive behavior ,should have gotten her out long time ago,just didn't , 1st time in life we ever fought like this......got to have my serenity back.and peace and harmony in my home,
Stay safe Lookingup, sounds ghastly. I hope that you will be gentle with yourself. I'm looking forward to the lovely oak tree in your quotation surrounded by peaceful, clear and sunny skies. ((((Hugs)))))
This sounds very troubling. It sounds as if you didn't know how to get your sister out of your house without physical means. As we all know, alcoholics resist anyone setting boundaries for them. I hope you can get some good legal advice about how to get her to move elsewhere. It also sounds like you were so frustrated at the current situation that you lashed out maybe in a way that is not helpful to you. I can't remember if you have a face-to-face meeting. The tools are a great way of figuring out how to set boundaries in effective ways. Take good care of yourself.
(((LU))) - I am also sending positive thoughts and prayers your way. Breathe and take care of you!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
Thanks everybody for all you wonderful esh,she says. She can't wait to get out now,but throwing a lot of threats at me,and no words between us other than her threatening to hurt me in some way she says she will get me back,who knows I'm just trying to take all th protective measures to protect me..
((((Hugs)))))