The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I miss him especially today. He was my hero in the end. He made me laugh & even made me cry. He was the saver of my sanity. He knew what I needed even hugs. He dropped everything to visit me in the hospital when no one else would. He smiled & his face lighted up. He wasn't always there but he made sure that we had food on the table & a place to live. He worked hard for over 33 years at the same job. & I admire him for that. Love him love him love him. I am finally getting peace after his passing. He died over four years ago.
Lovely, lovely share! I am so happy to still have my dad - he can't hear me well on the phone so I have to yell but he's still with us!!! I am flying them home for Christmas this year (if they are around still in December) for their 60th wedding anniversary present. He makes me laugh and is a joy to be around.
Grateful for having recovery to see the imperfect people in my life as they are - flawed but trying!
__________________
Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene