The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Not much going on today. Last night on the other hand my ah & I had another night of fighting. He spewed a few choice words & said something that I can't remember. Needless to say I had trouble sleeping. The fact was I needed to sleep & he wanted a moment of silence & he took it wrong. In this season of my life I have to go to bed early to get enough sleep just in case I wake up early. I am under a doctor's care. So today I decided to hit the road & get on here. No it is not really just another day & I am determined to make it better even w o my husband being happy. I am not responsible on how he feels or what he needs today to feel better himself.
(((Kathleen))) - glad you stopped by - here's to much better rest/sleep tonight!! You are 100% correct - you're only responsible for your happiness...what a gift we've been given!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene