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Letting go stinks! I am finishing my last post that I did on my thread. Under don't know what to do today? I am greatly saddened by my friend moving away. I am actually feeling a sense of grief & she hasn't left yet!!!! When someone goes through life experiences w you like no other it is hard to see any way w o them. Case in point she is one of the special ladies who I gave a 50th b party. I also went through kidney transplant when she gave her husband her kidney. And she helped me through my breast surgery. To name a few. I am unhappy. How do I say goodbye?
Just call me sad in ID.
(((Kathleen))) - so sorry for you - I fully understand.....my best friend in my world moved to TX about 10 years ago. I was sad and so was she.....but - guess what? She came back - 8 years later! So - we just never know what HP has planned - good-byes don't mean forever - I've learned that! Hang in there!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
(((Hugs))) to both....I can relate in distant ways - my youngest is not responding to text messages, which is often a sign of heading down the road to insanity. I'm trying to just do my thing, and hold on to my HP for love and support!
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
