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I am annoyed. I just had a tooth pulled but thats not why im annoyed. I woke up in the middle of the nite thinking that something was wrong with the divorce papers. So I called my lawyer. Seems my x sis in law who was supposed to serve the papers since she says that they will only allow her to see soon to be XAH who is in rehab, DID NOT SERVE THEM<DID NOT HAVE HIM SIGN THEM and LIED to me that she did!!!!!!!! She is in London for 2 wks so when she gets back, ill drag her lying butt to my lawyer so Ill have a 3rd person, tape proof of the truth??
She gave me some double talk about him not being ready[ although she said he agreed on it] I dont know what she wants from me, i want to sign over the ownership of the house to him and im going to work with him about the irs bill we owe etc. She just has to control me, that family is so controlling etc
Im not going to deal with this til after my cruise though [with my boyfriend] Im going to let go and let god and deal with this later
Alyce - hope the tooth and mouth are on the mend for you - sending healing thoughts and positive thoughts your way! I am glad you are setting the 'other' aside for now - focus on the cruise and the vacation upcoming! Sounds like a great plan to me!
(((Hugs))) - people are going to do whatever they want - use the QTIP - works for me...
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
I'd be annoyed too! Hang in there and just do the next right thing. As Iamhere said.....QTIP works a lot for me when I find myself frustrated with other people especially when they let me down.
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